Since my dad had a stroke two years ago it's been really
tough on him to just do the simple things in life. I know it can be easy to
take things for granted. Daily most of
us have the freedom of dressing, driving, and taking care of our basic needs.
Since his stroke he needs help in almost everything.
On the day of my
dad’s first visit to an adult health and recreation center he fought going like
a good brawler from Chicago. (He was born and raised there). I had the opportunity to go with him on his
first visit to the center. Just getting
out of the house presented its own set of challenges. When we both arrived it
was a little overwhelming to witness the wide variety of serious medical
conditions the guests at the center were faced with.
About 45
minutes into his visit I could see a change in my dad’s attitude. He looked
over at me and said “I guess I don't have it that bad after all". I could
see the emotion of gratitude for what he could do as opposed to what he couldn't
do for himself. I could feel the healing moment that truly revealed how
grateful he was to still be alive. Healing takes time and is only about half
health. The rest is our attitude and perseverance. It’s our connection to others.
Donate some time at a senior center to help others and
live a life of gratitude for your life!
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